Tell me . . . have you ever thought about changing your life?
I have.
I did.
A couple of times.
But the most significant time I remember, I was young. 18. In my first semester at college and my girlfriends and I just weren't ready. Not in the least ready for that next phase of pre-adulthood garbage.
The solution?
We voted on a temporary soujourn from the college plan, and we decided to drop out and move to Hawaii.
Perhaps not for everyone, but for four small town girls who’d yet to have consumed all the booze available to us at the time, it was a fabulous move.
We spent two years on Oahu. We got jobs on the South shore. In the oceanfront hotel bars as cocktail waitresses and bartenders (you only had to be 18 to serve liquor then). 21 to drink – and we had good fake IDs.
There were midnight swims and boys. Island boys and vacation boys. There was dancing. There was booze. There were surf lessons and day sails.
It was 2 years of reckless fun.
There was a romance with a naval officer. He was not so much a gentleman; it was my bad boy phase. There were no Righteous Brother serenades, but I didn’t mind it much.
There was booze.
There was a tattoo (my one regret).
But, I’d changed my life. I’d left small town, wine country life and I’d run away, spontaneously, no plan, just seeking fun and escape. Albeit temporarily, I changed my life.
Eventually, it came time to change it again and go back to school, but I didn’t look on it as a backward change. It was forward.
Tell me. . . . have you ever thought about changing your life?
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I stole the first line of this post from a play called Betrayal written by Harold Pinter. It’s part of Grace's 5th experiment with Stolen Lines. Grace provides the line, you start and end your post with the line and whatever you put in the middle is yours.
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14 comments:
I LOVE it. Sounds like heaven.
Ooo, funsies. Both the change AND the "stolen line" idea. God, I wish I'd done that. Hawaii could use some LiLu... oh wait, that's the other way around.
You left Hawaii, and you came to us in the LBC. How lucky we were!
-R
I absolutely love this post. My mind was everywhere in mine! I wish my thoughts were put together more symmetrically! =D Thank you for the comment! I shall make sure that I keep coming back here. Your words make me smile. :)
I want your life. Or at least your history. You've had some escapades worthy of adoration.
I only think it every day...lol
Sounds like a fun part of your life. exciting!
Grace: It was.
LiLu: I think it works both ways.
-R: You are my SoCA adoptive family.
Joy and Jen: Thanks!
Caroline: I know, right? Every day.
It sounds like it was a blast. (btw: i think you know who "Miss Foxy" is)
i've changed my life and admire others who take a chance and do the same. kudos to you!
Love this post - both the Hawaii and the stolen line thing. I don't think I need a change, but I'd gladly head off to the islands if I could.
It's been my dream to move to Hawaii and pursue the storyline of "Blue Crush." For serious. Just leave the stupid working world behind and pick up after people's condoms and surf :) First, I need to learn to surf.
How awesome!
What a wonderful time to look back on now!
Growing in Wonder: It was and I do. Good to see out here in the blogosphere.
Claire: Thanks!
Cheddar: I highly recommend the islands, and Stolen Lines, too. Anyone can participate at lawwithgrace.blogspot.com
A O Dub: Oohhh. Blue Crush! Loved that movie.
Fianna: Best memories of my life.
I feel you on this. I moved to Australia for a bit to re-discover myself. However, one should never, repeat never, regret a tattoo. It tells you life story. This coming from a guy that has 50 hours worth.
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